There are two types of oral sex, one relating to oral sex performed on a man, and the other referencing oral sex performed on a woman.
The technical term for oral sex performed on a man is called Fellatio.
Fellatio is when a woman takes a man’s penis in her mouth and sucks on it. The term Fellatio comes from the Latin “to suck”.
While I think many Christians would think it is wrong to show any image(even if drawn or painted) of sex – I do not. I think like many other things – there is an appropriate time and place for this type of imagery as teaching tool and this is one of those times. Below are images that demonstrate various positions women take when performing Fellatio:
All of these images were produced by http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Seedfeeder?rdfrom=commons:User:Seedfeeder and are in common domain
Cunnilingus is when a man performs oral sex on a woman. Cunnilingus comes from two Latin words – vulva (cunnus) and tongue (lingua), literally meaning “to lick the vulva with the tongue”. Many women and some men fear this. The reason that most women and some men fear this is that they are worried about not being “so fresh down there”. They worry about bodily secretions and sometimes when they are close to their period starting or it has just ended. While it is true that most men have no desire perform Cunnilingus on their wife during her period, most are fine with it just before or just after as long as she as bathed.
For most men though performing Cunnilingus on their wives is almost as big a turn on as her performing Fellatio on him. Men are very turned on by the scent of a woman’s vagina, plain and simple. We are designed that way. And ladies – let me tell you, when you take something away like Fellatio or even Cunnilingus, it just makes your husband think about that even more.
Below are some images depicting various positions for Cunnilingus:
Second image origin: http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/User:The_Wednesday_Island
You may have noticed the first picture is a repeat from the Fellatio positions. This position is known as “69” for obvious reason that the couples heads are on opposite ends. This allows for mutual sexual satisfaction during oral sex.
Many people who do not believe in marriage wonder how married people keep it “fresh”. The way they do is with variety. Whether it be intercourse, foreplay or oral sex you need to shake up the positions, otherwise that is where things get boring, and boring is the enemy when it comes to sex. For instance, lets say your favorite meal was steak. If you had steak, prepared exactly the same way every day and for every meal eventually you would grow to hate steak, or you certainly would look for something else. The same applies to sex, if you do it the same way, every time it begins to loose its appeal.
That is why I always say – when it comes to oral sex(as with sex in general) there are two rules to live by:
“Cleanliness is next to Godliness” and “Variety is the spice of life”. You don’t always have to take a bath before sex, and in some instances being dirty and sweaty may be a turn on. But many times it is not.
But then comes big question the ladies always ask…
Do I have to swallow?
The answer is yes, no and maybe. If you are doing it only as foreplay to intercourse, then of course you don’t need to swallow because you don’t want him to climax. But if you are performing Fellatio on your husband as an act of sacrificial love then you need to finish the job. Can you just jerk him off at the end, yes – but it’s not as satisfying. You should at the very least let him climax in your mouth and then very discreetly spit it out some place. But keep this mind – you taking in of your husband’s semen is very big psychological thing for him. It tells him you accept him, all of him, that you crave him. A man whose woman does this for him will do anything for that woman, he will think of you day and night. This is like throwing the hottest coal you could find in his love furnace and you will see the results in your relationship.
But another way to think of this is – if your husband were performing Cunnilingus on you and you were about to climax and he stopped and started using his fingers instead, most of you ladies would be very unhappy.
If you have read my articles on nudity on this site, you will know that I do not believe nudity in and of itself is wrong for a Christian(not even to photography one’s self nude). With that being said, this site below offers more information on oral sex and other “non-vaginal intercourse” types of sex but a WARNING to you, it does feature actual married couples having sex.
For more on oral sex from thegiftofsex.com – see Why a Christian should perform oral sex on her husband