Do Christian wives have to submit to requests for anal sex by their husbands?

This is one of the best explanations of I have ever read of why anal sex goes against God’s design of sex.

Biblical Gender Roles

In Ephesians 5:24 the Bible commands that wives are to submit to their husbands in “everything”.  Does “everything” include anal sex? Or does this fall under the exception clause to all earthly submission that “We ought to obey God rather than men.”(Acts 5:29)?

Beyond submission – what if the woman wants anal sex? Is it ok for a Christian couple to engage in anal sex?

Some Christians would give a quick response of “No way – anal sex is sodomy and sodomy is condemned in the Bible!”

However the word “sodomy” never occurs in the Bible.  That is a word made up in the English language.  Most people today when they hear the word sodomy think of one of two things – homosexual acts especially between two or more men or anal sex.  But the definition of sodomy in English is broader than this and includes oral sex or anal…

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Should Christians use different sexual positions?


No you don’t have to be a contortionist to use different sexual positions and YES you should.

I think another way to ask this question is to ask –  “Should Christians eat the same food every day?”

The answer is No way!

In fact many marriages have fallen apart because the couple has sex at the same time in the same position once a week(or month).  Variety is the spice of life and is critical in the sex life of any Christian(or non-Christian) couple.

I have written an entire article on the positions of sex complete with drawings(yes drawings).  Click here to read it.

In the above article I talk about all kinds of alternate positions you can do including:

1. Doggy Style(man from rear)

2. Cow Girl(woman on top)

3. Spoon(and no ladies – its not just for cuddling, this is spooning with a big twist)

And more….

Ladies please listen to me(and if you are one those few ladies who wants more variety but your husband does not – just substitute “Ladies” for “Guys”).

Do you want to make your husband happy? Do you love him? Would you cook him the same meal every night for dinner?

If the answer is you love him, and no you would not bring him the same meal every night for dinner, then why do bring him the same positions in bed every time you have sex?

Do you want him to be more loving to you? Do you want to light a fire in him that will cause him to do romantic things for you like buying your flowers? The power is in your hands ladies(and the rest of your body).

It really is that simple.