Imagine that every time you ate you plugged your nose as you ate. Yes you would still taste your food somewhat if your nose is plugged but it is a fact that our sense of smell directly impacts our tasting of food.
This is what many married couples do as their sex life falls into a rut. They simply stimulate those obvious erogenous zones (like a woman’s breasts, a woman’s vulva and a man’s penis) and it is straight to intercourse. This would be like just eating your food but never really savoring the taste of it.
Before we further obviously men and women need to have good hygiene and if a person does not do this the “taste” side of sex may be less than pleasurable. So if you don’t have good hygiene man or woman – fix it today!
The Bible shows that we can enjoy the taste of our spouse
Do you enjoy kissing your spouse?
“Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.” – Song of Solomon 1:2 (KJV)
Do you enjoy as your tongue touches theirs and taste of their mouth? Is it better than wine to you? It should be.
Wives do you enjoy the taste of you man’s penis?
“As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.” – Song of Solomon 2:3 (KJV)
The apple tree was a symbolism in ancient erotica of a man’s penis. This symbolism would literally of had the idea of a woman kneeling in front of her husband in the “shadow” of his penis and her delighting to perform fellatio on him.
As a wife you ought to be enjoying and savoring the taste your husband’s penis and the pre-ejaculate that goes in your mouth. This should not be gross or unappealing to you. You should also allow your husband to finish in your mouth sometimes and enjoy the taste of his semen as well.
Husbands do you enjoy the taste of your woman’s vulva and vagina?
“I would lead thee, and bring thee into my mother’s house, who would instruct me: I would cause thee to drink of spiced wine of the juice of my pomegranate.” – Song of Solomon 8:2 (KJV)
The pomegranate fruit was a symbol of a woman’s vulva and vagina in ancient times.
As a husband you should desire to taste the “juice” of you wife’s “pomegranate”. It should be intoxicating to you. If is not you need to cultivate a desire for it.
You should also be allowing your wife to climax in your mouth as often as she would like. The truth is that most women do not have orgasms through vaginal intercourse. Most women have orgasm only through oral or manual stimulation. This is something every Christian husband should be comfortable with and he should also help his wife to be comfortable with it.
We should desire the taste of our spouse’s lips, their skin and their genitals. If we allow ourselves to we can cultivate a taste for these things. We should savor our spouse’s body like one would savor a good meal. We should enjoy the tastes and scents of the one God has given us.
This will draw you closer and will make for a more intimate and arousing sexual experience with your spouse. Trust me – sex after you have tasted one another and savored one another first is 100 times better than what most couples do when they go straight to intercourse.
I encourage you today Christian married couples – go and savor the taste of the one you love!
Picture sources – All photos are used under the creative commons license
Couple French Kissing(first photo)
By KoS – Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=1280529
Apple Tree (second photo)
Pomegranates (third photo)
By Flickr user Jessica May H, using a Canon EOS 350D Digital camera – , CC BY 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=9360102